OCtober 26, 2017
Another promoted post. Talbots gave me some stuff, and some things for you too!
Talbots was always the “go to” store for ladylike clothes… I remember when Belovedest and I moved back from Ireland, and I was wearing the smallest clothing size I’ve worn since high school, and I really NEEDED a “kick butt and take names” suit – I went to Talbots. When I worked in an office, the family gift cards were ALWAYS for Talbots…
I have to admit, though, that I’ve always had reservations about the term “lady.” I always felt that it meant older, and more retiring, and genteel in a way that might mean being a doormat. The idea of manners and good breeding and appropriate conduct appealed, though… I was conflicted.
Which is why I’m happy to embrace Talbots’ current efforts to reclaim the term “lady,” on our terms. Or, as they put it: “being a “lady” is defining it for yourself and being unapologetically you – real, confident, fun, and imperfectly enchanting.”
So how does this involve us all? First, Talbots gave me some more clothes! Let’s look at what tempted…
Obviously – I’m always interested in something black and white, or black and grey. Snuggly, sweatery, and long-sleeved are ALL in the rotation now that the temperature dropped a solid 30 degrees in the last few days!
I’ve been mad about cables since I was a little girl – and some of these colors are pretty appealing! The tweedy cabled sweater sort of has my name written on it, too. And I was pleased to note that the cardigan that I bought before I went to Paris is still catching my eye as I scroll through the Internet…
I briefly flirted with the idea of a marled, tweedy dress… And BOTH of these floral sweaters keep attracting my attention; I’m going to have to be alert to this sudden (and somewhat out of character) interest in florals!
But #becauseimalady, I know enough to take the advice of my friends! When I reviewed what I packed for Paris, quite a few of you noted that I seem to have a pretty serious affection for the black and white marled garments that I own. So when I saw these 2 pieces, and I remember what you all had said, I knew that I had winners!
I can already see these coming together in an easy 6-Pack wardrobe for a long weekend… I just need to find my destination!
Also #becauseimalady, I keep my word about keeping my “active” wardrobe streamlined! So this is what I’m currently wearing. My sleeveless dress has ceded its position for a striped dress from L.L.Bean that I particularly love…
The “stardigan” is back! And my short-sleeved tee shirt and jumper dress have made way for my new sweaters…
This is the full current wardrobe – more than enough for anything that life throws at me!
But here’s where the really good fun starts!
Leave me a comment – use the “hashtag” #becauseimalady – and tell me what being a lady means to you… (Talbots wants us to use the hashtag, so I’m complying – anybody who gives us gift cards gets to make at least ONE request, eh?)
And next Monday, at 4 pm Chicago time, I’m going to randomly choose THREE commenters to receive a $100 Talbots gift card! Yes, I have 3 of these… Your odds of winning are very good!
So let me start:
#becauseimalady, I know the difference between pants and leggings!
love,
Janice
Patricia says
#becauseimalady I buy quality over quantity and wear garments I love for years
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady I do not ridicule or condemn fashion choices of others but instead try to be the change I want to see around me. I don't think that having an attractive style is going to help much if you are a mean and judgemental person…
Sara K.
Lynne SB says
#becauseimalady – being kind is always fashionable
Beccah says
#becauseimalady I know the difference between “it fits” and “I can fit into it” ( with s struggle, crisco and fishing line)
Trisha says
Good one!
The Bride says
#becauseimalady I say 'Please' and 'Thank-you.' Thanks, Janice, for letting us into your closet. Thanks, Talbots, for this opportunity and also for years of keeping me appropriately and happily clothed.
I have great affection for Talbots – when I used to work in an office, I wore Talbots blazers nearly every single day. I had them in every available color – in wool for winter and linen for summer. And I had a great many Talbots dresses and skirts that I wore with them. I thought of them as my version of my male colleague's suits – my uniform. But never was a uniform so varied and colorful.
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady I finally realized that would looks good on me is so personal and distinctive. Trends, and what others wear can influence me, but only I know what really works for me!
Pat George says
#becauseImalady I listen to my mom, but buy what's right for me
Unknown says
#becauseimalady Talbots has been a favorite of mine for at least a decade. Great style, consistent fits, reliable quality. I love that I have pieces that are 5+ years old that still look great and work with current pieces! They mix traditional with stylish in a perfect blend. As do you, Janice!
Anonymous says
#because I'm a lady, I try to dress appropriately. Sustainability is coming to the forefront of my clothes consciousness. Janice has given us the tools to be intelligent consumers.
Karen
Beffyann says
#becauseimalady I buy less but better :) and I wear it til it falls apart.
Anonymous says
#becauseI'malady, I buy only the clothes that make me feel happy and fit well, and appreciate my body for what it can do. Focus on the positive and keep moving forward. Thanks, Janice and Talbots for this chance. Sue
Tricia says
#becauseImalady I don't go past the mailbox without lipstick. (I also shop almost exclusively at Talbots!)
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady I always try to dress my best (neat, clean, appropriately) for others, but mostly for myself!
Cheryl R. Peeples says
#becauseimalady, I only wear what makes me happy.
Anonymous says
#becauseImalady I look first at the color and fit of the clothes I am considering, and stay away from the garbage clothes that some stores offer. I do look at price, but I splurge when I find something great. I'm worth it! Megan
Nicole L. says
#becauseimalady I try to wear clothes in natural fabrics that won't sprout holes in three years and generally buy secondhand – don't want to contribute quite as much to the landfill.
Nicole L. says
*three wears.
CharVee says
#becauseiamalady I know beach attire is not office attire!
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady, I take care of myself, and part of that means dressing my body well no matter what size I am. Having lost 120 pounds, shopping is more challenging due to some sagging parts, but I keep looking until I find something I love. Terry
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady, I try to find age-appropriate, but not dowdy or too-youthful clothing. I've been retired almost 10 years, but still wear some of my beloved Talbots items that I wore to the office in every season. I still shop Talbots for my "retirement" wardrobe.
Thank you for this wonderful chance to participate!
NancyO.
Nancy/n.o.e says
hi from another nancyo!
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady, I walk with strength and dignity, and I am able to smile at the future.
Creative Life says
#becauseimalady Two wardrobe staples I wear every day – a confident smile and sassy pants!
StephF says
I appreciate having nice clothing available in plus sizes – #becauseimalady
Terri says
#BecauseIamaLady I can be colorful and classy at the same time.
Beckie says
#becauseimalady I know that hose and proper foundation garments will make elevate an outfit to the next level.
Sharon says
#becauseIamalady, I don't have to dress like a girl. I can dress for me, the occasion, and choose good fabrics, great colors, and wear my clothes for years, not a season.
Memee says
#becauseimalady I smile at myself in the mirror, especially when I am wearing red lipstick
Anonymous says
#becauseiamalady, I choose clothes that fit my actual body, not the body I used to have, and don't feel badly about it.
Kimm says
#becauseimalady, I wear colorful clothes that make me happy and I do my best to be gracious when the world around me is not.
Virginia says
#becauseimalady, I wear pearls with a tee shirt and jeans.
BTW, reading through these is the best! We are all fantastic ladies!!
Kendal says
I second your words! What a great, inspiring group :)
Camille Goldston says
Yes! I agree!
Cheryl K says
#becauseimalady, I know when a shirt fits and when it is too tight.
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady I take care of myself and help those around me. Lesley
Shrebee says
Janice,
#becauseimalady I won’t wear distressed jeans !
Ellen says
#becauseimalady means that I dress that a lovely woman, not a trashy girl. It means dressing age appropriate,y, but never matronly. A well put together sense of style is just good manners.
Katherine says
#becauseimalady I'm not afraid to call out sexist work dress codes and advocate for change when necessary.
Throckmorzog says
Amen to that! It’s a very ladylike quality to stand up for justice.
Bravo, Katherine!
Trisha says
I love that cleaning house snippet! #becauseimalady my outfits always have at least 3 pieces.
Amanda Johnsrud says
#becauseimalady I say bless your heart instead of fleepyflappyflufferfrappe
Megan says
#becauseimalady I choose pieces that are flattering, functional & fun to wear.
LInda Orr says
#becauseimalady I know that 'private parts' ARE private: they do not need to be shared with the world in order to be attractive.
Catherine says
#becauseimalady I know that true beauty comes from the inside, so I try not to judge anyone by their size or shape.
Julie V says
#becauseimalady, I dress for who I am now, with an eye toward who I'm working to become.
Lucinda says
#becauseimalady, I try to make others comfortable, without making myself uncomfortable.
Katherine says
#becauseimalady I'm streamlining my wardrobe to include only things I love.
pastan says
#becauseimalady I know that quality trumps quantity, especially in clothes. Thanks, Janice, for all you do compiling and writing The Vivienne Files!
webb says
#BecauseImaLady, i wish that skirts were a little longer! Fortunately there are many great slacks for those of us who don't like to show off our knees. Am trying to incorporate some tights, so that i feel comfortable in the shorter skirts. ps: Love your new Talbot cardigan It's just perfect!
Margie from Toronto says
#becauseImalady I dress the woman that I am now and not the one that others expect me to be.
Throckmorzog says
#becauseimalady I know what I want, I know what I need, and I know how to tell the difference.
#becauseimalady I care for others.
#becauseimalady I embrace adventure.
Throckmorzog says
— as an aside, I was going to order that half-zip sweater today anyway for outdoor winter adventures! — : )
The Inspired Stitcher says
#becauseImalady I can wear what I want when I want to and totally be myself doing it.
Scottie says
#becauseimalady I get to wear what I want, when I want and where I want; I've earned it #becauseimalady. All y'all rock on this site!
Daria says
#becauseimalady I always wear stockings with leather dress shoes and never barefoot.
Katie Rose says
#becauseImalady I know that certain garments have a time and a place and choose accordingly (and sometimes that time is "never" and that place is "not on me!")
(also, if I have posted twice I sincerely apologize and ask that it be disregarded, I waited and my first post never seemed to appear so I have tried again.)
Juhli says
#becauseimalady I treat others with respect and kindness and try to treat myself the same way.
Becca says
#becauseimalady I smile when I pass people. I compliment someone's choice in clothing/accessories if I see something I like—which is often! I remind myself not to judge. And I try to limit my wardrobe to six colors :P
Kandace says
#becauseimalady I wear red lipstick.
Kaite C says
#becauseimalady I am always kind and classy. And never use the word b**bs. ;-)
Meredith says
I love everything about this wardrobe. The new Talbot's catalog is beautiful and I love the red lace skirt and bow pumps!
Christine Moon says
#becauseimalady I know appearing confident on the outside helps the inside to follow suit.
Deb from Vancouver says
#becauseiamalady, I read The Viviennefiles everyday!
Christine Walker says
Ooh, some good comments already. I'm with you, I have mixed feelings about the word lady. It often has a condescending subtext, especially when used by a man speaking to a group of women he refers to as ladies, but the idea of "reclaiming" the word is intriguing.
#becauseimalady I care about the world around me and make try to make ethical choices when purchasing clothing.
Anonymous says
I show rather than tell others my strategy for fashion and life in general. It's all in the details but you must look and listen closely. I won't shout them #becauseimalady Deb in KY
Suzyn says
#because I'm a lady, I've been raising my sons to be feminists.
Hey, how do you like those uniqlo velvet pants? They're on sale for $14.90 today, and I have them and the matching top in my cart…
Janice Riggs says
I'm adoring them! And I don't adore clothes lightly – but I actually search for occasions to wear them. If you get them at that price, you'll feel like a gorgeous genius!
hugs,
Janice
Suzyn says
Alright, you sold me! I'll be in head-to-toe indigo velvet this holiday season! Hmmm – I'm thinking I need a hot pink silk sash around my waist to tie it all together…
Oh, and #becauseImalady again, because my fingers typed *words* above! ;)
Lucy says
#becauseiamalady I know that when you judge another, you don't define them, you define yourself.
Dylan says
#becauseiamalady, I treat service people with respect.
Anonymous says
#because I'm a lady, I seek style advice, not permission
sj says
#becauseimalady I keep my underwear *under* my other clothes.
Brenda says
I agree with what Talbots is suggesting,and I'll add that a lady is kind. #becasueimalady
Hoya says
#becauseImalady I polish my shoes and my jewelry :-) But sometimes I have garden dirt under my nails, despite cleaning…..
I'm a Sophie Doodle Dog says
#becauseimalady I love the clothes and shoes at Talbots.
reenswen says
#becauseimalady I "dress up" most days just to show that I am a lady.
Lorrie says
#becauseimalady I value quality over quantity.
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady I wear my favorite purple shoes to work once a week
~Amy
Jennifer Pierce says
#becauseimalady I love to watch trends and others' styles, but remain true to what makes me feel the most confident and comfortable. Talbots usually knows exactly what that takes!
cheryl :) says
#becauseimalady I know that a smile is always our best accessory :)
Teri Brilhart says
#becauseimalady I dress to please myself and am not a slave to the latest fashion trends. I've loved Talbots since I was straight out of college!
Barb Witkowski says
#becauseimalady I try to dress classically and comfortably, and Talbots helps me to do both! Kindness, however, makes us more attractive than what we wear!
CC says
#becauseimalady I say please and thank you and treat others with kindness and teach my children to do the same. And I wear pink whenever I can! ?
Susan Scifres says
#becauseimalady, I ALWAYS check the full length mirror before I leave the house to make sure nothing is showing that should not be showing.
Live a Colorful Life says
#becauseimalady I practice good manners and have a pair of good black pants.
Valkirria says
#becauseimalady kindness is never out of style
Love what you´re doing with the travel packs but I can not wear black or grey or white
Please include some warmer neutrals including pants.
Saludos!
Wendy
sewdiane says
#becauseimalady, I like to follow the golden rule. Not because I'm better, but because I appreciate and respect those around me. Beauty comes from the inside…
Jennifer says
#becauseimalady I think before I speak.
Val Greeley says
#becauseimalady…I always try my best to be elegant, courteous, and have a sense of respect toward oneself and others.
Sisty says
#becauseimalady, I always have lipstick on.
No Fear of Fashion says
#becauseiamalady…. I love well-made quality clothes. It makes me feel confident.
(Hah, this was fun.)
Your capsules are very wise and I too adore a black and white combination. That has my first love. But… I’d love to inject some bright colours in your capsule. That is just me of course… always so loud haha.
Greetje
Deana Sanders says
#becauseimalady, I know that athleisure attire is not appropriate everywhere :)
Alison says
#becauseimalady words matter and I don't say anything if I don't have anything nice to say!
Gail Finke says
#becauseimalady I respect others and myself, including by the way I dress — classic, classy, ready for anything but never overdoing it.
I love Talbots, some of my all-time favorite clothes come from that store.
vi says
#becauseimalady i dress in marl or tweed almost all the time in fall and winter, my close second is plaids– and i love cardigans, long ones, 34 to 38'' long
SEMS Library Lady says
I have your Talbot's travel wardrobe saved in my Pinterest board for my London trip next month. And #becauseimalady, I know that buying better quality clothes is more important than buying MORE clothes!
Sheri says
#becauseimalady I know that my appearance matters and must be appropriate for the occasion and true to my style preferences…simple lines, timeless, and luxuriously comfortable :)
Ivy Bromius says
#becauseimalady I do know the difference between boss and bossy — and make sure to live it so my colleagues learn too (Talbots is where I go to for my suits for when I also need to dress like a boss).
Sandi T says
Good manners were bred into me as a girl, both at home and at school, and they have stayed with me over the years, as has Talbots! #becauseiamalady
Anonymous says
#becauseimalday Being appropriately dressed is essential in my office. I feel better about myself and have more confidence if I have taken time with my appearance. I can always depend on Talbots to fine just want I need. Shopping is difficult because I petite and older (proud of it).
Terri says
#becauseimalady I make sure to share my positive thoughts with others and use tact when someone asks for less positive feedback.
Tammy says
#becauseIamalady, I like my reading glasses to match my clothes.
Courtney says
#becauseimalady I get dressed (including jewelry!) every morning, even if my job for the day is staying home with my three young children.
Kelly Hughes says
#becauseimalady, I wear clothes that boost my mood and make me feel like I can conquer the day ahead of me.
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady, I’m glad that good taste isn’t dictated by others who initiate ‘must have’ fashion trends! Sharon, U.K.
Barbara says
#becauseimalady I wear clothes that fit (properly) !!
Kathy Acosta says
#becauseimalady I know that cleavage has no place in the office! I shudder to see some of these young women with their blouses cut way down low and "the girls" hanging out for all to see.
Ann Torrence says
#becauseImalady I remember to speak only when it is kind, true and will help
Jeffiner Cox says
#becauseimalady My wardrobe has to work as hard as I do.
Awesome in TN says
#becauseimalady I treat my body with respect and appreciate the people I encounter each day. I enjoy each day that I live. Mary Lou
Charlene Burroughs says
#becauseimalady I know classy never goes out of style.
Jamie says
#becauseimalady, I'm always careful of others' feelings.
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady I’m striving to be the best person I can be. Lori M
small town gal says
#becauseimalady I want to wear clothing that shows I am the lady my mom always admonished me to be. Carol S.
Amy Olles says
#becauseImalady I hold my head high
ErinMN says
#becauseimalady, I struggled not punctuating the "I'm"! :-) Wear lots of Talbots, love their pants usually come in longs.
Sophia says
#becauseiamalady I love shopping at Talbots!
Lilac says
#becauseimalady I am always ready to accept a challenge, work hard to achieve results, and let the best shine through!
Denise says
#becauseimalady I love your wardrobe and have used it as a springboard for my own.
Jackiedeeh says
#becauseimalady I assume good intentions and treat others how I would like to be treated and also have Talbots as a go-to for their awesome petite choices.
LindaC says
#becauseimalady I know that my clothes reflect my personality.
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady…when they go low, I go high.
Charlene H.
GrammaGrits says
#becauseimalady, I seek to listen more than I talk and enjoy dressing nicely each day in spite of small town living!
Jeanette, Mistress of Longears says
#becauseimalady who loves a store that always has petites!
Carolyn Balch says
#becauseimalady I try to treat everyone with honor and dignity
Adeline Smyth says
#becauseimalady To my mind a lady means a person who knows how to speak to and treat people in any walk of life in a courteous manner, knows how to dress appropriately for any given situation, and one who is always gracious to others (even if they don't want to be).
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady, MY LEGS STAY TOGETHER: THEY ARE BFF'S
Laurie Marsh says
#becauseimalady, I can use my chainsaw, splitter and wrapper for my firewood business and show up at my vendor with a sense of style and panache and no one believes I've been the one processing the wood!
Deborah Montgomery says
#becauseimalady, I believe in being kind.
phxbne says
#becauseimalady I try to be kind and caring, but speak my mind
Kiley Arnold says
#becauseimalady I love to dress up, accessorize, and show my feminine side just as much as I love to be comfy and casual
BC Eicher says
#becauseimalady I dress nicely even on casual days.
Brigid Johnson says
#becauseimalady I never leave home with holey underwear.
ruralgirl says
#becauseimalady I strive to treat ALL women as ladies
Dawn says
#becauseimalady I remember what slips are and wear them. I also know that the view from behind when bending over isn't always as demure as the view from the front standing straight. I know to check both before leaving the house.
Wendy says
#becauseimalady I like my clothes to fit well and Talbot's Pointe knit jackets are a great fit. I LOVE their selection of women's petites!
Christina says
#becauseimalady I drive fast and wear Talbot's cashmere because it's the best
Cathy says
Great post! #becauseimalady I know there are still some occasions that call for an outfit that does not include jeans.
The Second Half says
Love the post, and Talbots!) #becauseimalady I know it's never a bad thing to be the smartest person in the room!
Beth Malchus says
#becauseimalady I always fall back to Talbot's dresses. I can get a piece here and a piece there and don't have to worry, next year I can still wear it. Classic clothes.
Candice Turner says
#becauseimalady I am grateful and I try to show it.
Mary Cavaciuti says
#becauseimalady I wear earrings every day
Kay Carter says
#becauseimalady, I live my life with gratitude and accept my very wonky smile and partial facial paralysis caused by a (non-malignant) brain tumor. I still smile everyday! And I still wear a bit of lipstick!
drewalexmom says
#becauseimalady, I endeavor to meet ignorance with understanding.
chick of a certain age says
#becauseimaladyI will buy the best quality I can afford. #faveTalbotsBlazers!
Karen Juergens says
#becauseimalady, I have become a Talbot's aficionado, due to their consistent inspirations in fashion each season, and their annual Dress for Success clothing drives!
[email protected]
Anne Scanapico says
#becauseimalady, my girls have grown up to be strong, loving, caring women. So proud of them. They respect others treat people equally.
Nancy/n.o.e says
#becauseImalady I wear a slip always with a skirt or dress so that the garment looks attractive and not distracting. – nancyo
ps, I shouldn't be surprised that other commenters above share my love of slips, #becausetheyreladies too!
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady, I love a classy dress.
Abigail says
#becauseimalady I dress the body I have today with well-fitting and coordinating clothing, use good posture, and try to feel good about myself even if I’m still wearing a clunky sports shoe following foot surgery.
Jody says
#becauseimalady I love the cashmere at Talbots. The water weave wraps are my favorite
bkvl says
#becauseimalady I want to unclutter my life with too many choices so I can be a blessing to others. Love your fashion advice Janice!
Camille Goldston says
This is great!! More freedom comes with fewer choices! And thank you, Janice, for helping me focus my wardrobe (especially for travel since I travel a lot!) so I can concentrate on what matters—the people around me.
Tess Ware says
#becauseimalady [of a certain age!], I now know to buy my shoes before I buy my outfit at Talbots, my favorite store.
Anonymous says
#Iamalady-dressing well is part of having good manners
Mary Gonzales says
#becauseimalady I want to treat others with dignity and respect.
Donna Weaver says
#becauseimalady, I know I'm like a fine wine, I get better with age. I love classic, well made clothes that are age appropriate and not just todays trend.i still think wearing hose and slips or camisoles should be a requirement. The make your clothes fit and look better. Also must have my pearls. Love Talbot's for their style and customer service. Love your blog S well.
Camille Goldston says
#becauseimalady I can be feminine AND accomplished.
jean says
I wear the pants. #becauseiamalady
Texas from the north says
#becauseimalady although I have a career in a predominantly men's field, I am myself when I'm stylish, graceful and kind.
Zaidie Brown says
#becauseimalady I own a castle, prefer to buy ethical clothes and fairtrade items to give others a decent chance at life and I don't judge people on their clothing choices, despite not choosing athleisure or rips for myself.
Diana says
#becauseimalady I know comfort and style are not mutually exclusive.
isisonearth says
#becauseimalady I bought a quality handbag that will stand the test of time while still showing a lot of personality.
Maria in PA says
#becauseimalady I define and embrace my own versions of strong and sexy.
I rediscovered Talbots last year when rebuilding a wardrobe after losing weight. After feeling dismissed in another store, I walked in and was greeted by a most helpful sales associate. She spent hours helping me find the proper new sizes, providing a critical eye, and putting together basic pieces to give me the most bang for my buck.
I recently added in the Paris cardigan. It caught my eye in the catalog, and your post convinced me of its versatility. Thank you, Janice!
KPD says
#becauseiamalady I help people whenever I can without letting anyone know. I love the Ann Lamott quote that earth is forgiveness school and we are all just walking each other home. Also, I LOVE Talbots, the have petites that are the right shape for me. Been wearing them for the past 40 years to teach, still wearing them retired.
Beth B says
#becauseiamalady I know a little mystery is a good thing!
littlebear says
#becauseimalady I can. I will. And I do!
PS – First time commenting, but I treat myself to your blog every day! Thanks so much for what you do!
Holly Hiatt says
#becauseimalady I can enjoy Disney and War and Peace all in the same night of at home entertainment with great running dialog.
Jane says
Oh Janice, you took mine! (leggings as pants) Everyone posting is so clever! Here's mine –
#becauseimalady I believe pre-distressed is preposterous!
Anonymous says
#becauseimalady I dress comfortably, age appropriately and professionally with an eye towards quality and classic attire and dressing for who I am.
Josephine Faith Gibbs says
#becauseimalady I spend hours at the thrift store helping my young adult daughter put together an outfit. We sort through rack after rack for possibilities and then I give feedback as she tries things on, pointing out why some things don't play nicely together, how cheap garments and quality garments hang differently, what colors and lines work best on her, and encouraging her toward appropriateness, all while not imposing my style on her.
Nancy Flaherty says
#becauseimalady I strive to do my best in whatever I face each day and consciously look for the best in others as well.
Cee Pluse says
#becauseiamalady I embrace diversity in others rather than demand conformity… and that of course includes apparel preferences! I know my casual style is not for everyone, just as the looks others choose are not necessarily for me, but my feeling is that if everyone did everything the same way we would live in a very boring and stagnant world, and stagnation is the antithesis of progress. I choose progress every time. Thank you for the giveaway opportunity, Janice!
MariaLaura says
#becauseiamalady I packed light for a six day trip to London and Aarhus. All garments were either black or white with a silk scarf used to add some color punch. I looked and felt like a million bucks and was ready for all occasions, which included sightseeing, semi-formal dinners and a performance of The Magic Flute at the Royal Opera in London! Never forget to pack a LBD!
Anne says
#becauseimalady I take time to look my best whether I'm going out or just working at the home office all day
Kirsti says
#becauseimalady I greet everyone I meet with a smile!
I love that quarter zip fair isle pullover! Good choices Janice!
Leigh Taylor Ellis says
#becauseimalady I know the vital corollary to "Treat others as you want to be treated," is "Treat yourself as you would have others treat you."
kris says
#becauseimalady I want to dress appropriately for special occasions both celebratory and sad. (Weddings and funerals come to mind.) For those special occasions, I often find myself wearing a classic Talbots coat purchased some 25 or 30 years ago. (It may well be the oldest item in my wardrobe.)
Mrs. Manic says
#becauseimalady I don't always say out loud what's on my mind. As Sun Tzu said, victorious warriors win first and then go to war.
Kelly says
Ooh, I like that! I've been reading Sun Tzu lately — so much wisdom for all of life in his writings.
Gail says
#becauseimalady I salute you, Janice, for the great eye and the prodigious energy, soul, and vision that you bring to this blog. I love the heartfelt sentiments expressed by your many, many appreciative readers and I marvel at the way you keep on changing our lives one mindful closet at a time.
tracey meade says
#becauseimalady I wear a smile, great shoes,a wonderful handbag and a beautiful scarf!
La Belle Demimondaine says
#becauseimalady sometimes I dress to please myself, and sometimes I dress to do homage to those around me, and sometimes I manage to do both.
Ann Hicks says
#becauseimalady I don't judge folks by their shape or size.
Molly says
#becauseimalady I treat others with respect. :)
Amy says
#becauseimalady I know how to dress appropriately for various situations. I also know that leggings are not pants!
Kelly says
#becauseimalady I correct my children's grammar, but not my friends'.
I've never had a problem with the word lady. Where I'm from, "lady" implies a strength, dignity, and magnanimity that I've always aspired to.
Suzi says
#becauseimalady I know that a compliment can make someone’s entire day…and sometimes dresses really do need a slip underneath!
Debra says
#becaseimalady…I know that a scarf or necklace can complete my outfit.
Karen S. says
#becauseimalady I try to treat others with kindness :) (even myself!).
flasthrnbel says
#becauseimalady….I have given myself permission to wear only what is comfortable, stylish, fits my figure well, and is the best quality I can afford.
ann schutt says
#becauseimalady my straps do not show! Thank you Janice – I'm enjoying and learning from you.
Inese says
#becauseimalady I can never have too many cardigans and scarfs.
Inese says
#becauseimalady I can never have too many cardigans and scarfs.
Lynne says
#becauseimalady Being a lady is keeping your personal business private, being gracious and dressing modestly but still pulled together.
Jennifer says
#because I'm a lady I know HOW to wear leggings as pants ;)
Becky Holloway says
#becauseimalady I want my casual weekend wear to be as nice and stylish as my working wardrobe.
Lynn Johnson says
#becauseimalady I practice good manners while standing up for myself.
Lynn Johnson says
#becauseimalady I practice good manners while standing up for myself.
rustygirl14 says
#becauseimalady I make sure my students (and my friends!) know that what matters to me is their personalities, not their appearances.
Tori Grant says
#becauseiamalday I know my own thoughts and respect other peoples opinions, speaking truth with kindness.
Jennifer says
#becauseimalady I know that sticking to my own standards and my own style is always appropriate.
Jennifer says
#becauseimalady I know that sticking to my own standards and my own style is always appropriate.
Sorry if I double-posted.
Also, I totally agree with Inese!
A Book-Loving Traveler says
#becauseimalady I mind my manners and say “Please” and “Thank you”.
Taylor2010 says
#becauseimalady I work and play hard.
Marie says
#becauseimalady I show love to everyone. Everyone!
Elaine Robeck says
#becauseimalady I try to think the best of people.
Rusthawk says
#becauseimalady i value strength and kindness.
Susan Christy says
#becauseimalady, I don't swear (outloud).
elle says
#becauseimalady I dress/act like a lady
AndreaB says
#becauseimalady I dress so that I feel right for the time/place and that others feel comfortable, too.
Melanie Messing says
#becauseimalady I know that you can never have too many shoes!
Sarah S. says
#becauseimalady I wear the clothes that make me feel good and put together and don't worry so much about looking trendy.
Unknown says
#becauseImALady reminds me of The Aristocats, such sass
Caroline Buster-Brown says
#becauseimalady I know Chanel from jeans & boots days, but if hard pressed I could easily pull together both for a modern day stunner.