It's not lost on me that life can be hard, times can be tough, and that you can't walk around with a witless grin on your face 24/7. But you can try to be pleasant - at least demonstrate a reasonable amount of joy in being alive. Enthusiasm. Spark. Zest. All those kinds of things...
Sluggish is not going to do it. Get in motion! Energy, enthusiasm, a spark... (I'm sensing a theme here...)
Too much clutter, too many details, too many conflicting visual signals - I find that hard to process, and it doesn't feel chic to me. People around you should be able to "read" you reasonably easily, so that they have a sense of you. Your appearance communicates who you are to the rest of the world; try to ... View the Post